Dependent is a way bigger term than it sounds! At times we had to rely on others and the best example would be from our childhood days. We all were dependant on our family members– for financial support and personal guidance. Moreover nurtured as well being prepared for those incomparable bouncers of life.
When we rely on others we tend to believe or trust blindly. Life is a competition after a certain point and we all are participants. There’s no guarantee that at times others would be loyal to you and won’t betray you. Family is different which will stay by your side but think about the rest of the world where people are chasing their goals.
Dependancy will always create a mist full of confusion for your upcoming crucial decisions. It would snatch away your responsibilities of life and no wonders that it would make you a puppet without own opinions. Not only it will make you adopt other’s expectations as your own but would also turn you up into an indecisive person, seeking approvals from others. It would lead you into those paths of wonders, ruining your own creativity.
Happiness determines or rather frames your quality of life. Indeed nobody likes to have a boring life. There are problems wandering our paths and it will be. But one of those will never be solved to the extent when you stop being very needy. Its all about need! We depend on someone when we are needy else if we are good without it, we are cool to be quoted as self-dependant.
Every setback brings you the opportunity to test your self-reliability.
So, don’t be puzzled enough to celebrate adversity. Learning is always a part of life and without it, you would never make your way– being a complete and reliable person. All you need to remember that you must never ever forget to trust yourself and have faith in your potentials. We often attach to people, wonderful cherished memories but bitter truth is– Nothing is Forever! So you must accept to separate yourself from things at times.
It’s common that we love to seek the attention of others, love to be praised and also wants to be liked by loved ones. But the moment we lose our identity, it would be difficult for us to identify us as humans. Moreover, with this scenario, you can’t be the personality you wanted to be in life.Even a bird depends on its wings and trust on its potentials to fly.
Always have a voice of your own which will only define you. Revamp yourself into a self-confident, self-reliable personality and try to control your emotions which really doesn’t matter to the world. Be comfortable with yourself, depend on your skills and…